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Old 29-11-2016, 18:31   #16
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Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?

Certain people seem to want to hide the fact that men that sexually abuse boys will overwhelming be gay.
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Old 29-11-2016, 19:11   #17
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Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?

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Where does he say that? He wasn't talking about all gay men and he wasn't talking about all paedophiles. He was ONLY talking about the men that abused young boys. That would make them gay and a paedophile.
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Certain people seem to want to hide the fact that men that sexually abuse boys will overwhelming be gay.
Nonsense:

* Men who become sexually excited by prepubescent children (male or female) are not gay or straight, they are paedophiles.

* Most paedophiles are turned on by the fact it's a child, the sex of the child is largely irrelevant to them.

* The football coach had relationships with adult females, yet liked young boys too.

* The majority of paedophiles will be considered heterosexual in their public life.

* Given the above, there is bound to be more heterosexual men than homosexual men abusing young boys, simply because there are more straight than gay men in the world.

This isn't to say that there won't be some men who are regarded as gay in their public life who also commit acts of a paedophiliac nature, but to say "most" is wholly inaccurate.

Bristos offensive and homophobic language has been widely condemned and his employer appears to agree, hence his dismissal.
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Old 29-11-2016, 19:44   #18
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Nonsense:

* Men who become sexually excited by prepubescent children (male or female) are not gay or straight, they are paedophiles.

* Most paedophiles are turned on by the fact it's a child, the sex of the child is largely irrelevant to them.

* The football coach had relationships with adult females, yet liked young boys too.

* The majority of paedophiles will be considered heterosexual in their public life.

* Given the above, there is bound to be more heterosexual men than homosexual men abusing young boys, simply because there are more straight than gay men in the world.

This isn't to say that there won't be some men who are regarded as gay in their public life who also commit acts of a paedophiliac nature, but to say "most" is wholly inaccurate.

Bristos offensive and homophobic language has been widely condemned and his employer appears to agree, hence his dismissal.
So the gay slang term "chicken" doesn't exist? Even Elton John and John Wayne Gacy married women. Paedophiles have a type. They don't swap around between boys and girls.
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Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?

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Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?

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Bristos offensive and homophobic language has been widely condemned and his employer appears to agree, hence his dismissal.
Ah yes, the twitter thought police at work again.
Always there to get offended on behalf of someone else.
Why people are still stupid enough to use it I'll never understand.
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So the gay slang term "chicken" doesn't exist? Even Elton John and John Wayne Gacy married women. Paedophiles have a type. They don't swap around between boys and girls.
I believe that the term "chicken" refers to young lads, but not underage boys.

Paedophila is very complex (I studied sexual deviants as a student).

Some genuinely believe that they can have a relationship with a child as they would with an adult, some do it for the depravity, others for sadistic purposes etc.

You are correct in saying that many do have a type eg sex, age range, looks etc.

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Ah yes, the twitter thought police at work again.
Always there to get offended on behalf of someone else.
Why people are still stupid enough to use it I'll never understand.
He tried to backtrack and said that he referred to the football coach as a "poof" in error (as if that's an acceptable term anyway!) and meant to say 'paedo' instead.

What he said about these brave men was unacceptable; they have enough to contend with without this idiot making such remarks.
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They simply had no option Richard.
They should've read this

http://southendnewsnetwork.com/news/...orting-legend/

As Derek Bisto said given his usual environment those comments were inevitable
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Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?

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They should've read this

http://southendnewsnetwork.com/news/...orting-legend/

As Derek Bisto said given his usual environment those comments were inevitable
The link does not work TD.
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Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?

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The link does not work TD.
Presumably because it has the word ****ed in it, anyone wishing to may feel free to use their imagination to scroll down to the correct article
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Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?

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Presumably because it has the word ****ed in it, anyone wishing to may feel free to use their imagination to scroll down to the correct article
Maybe CF, as a family friendly site, also blocks links with such terminology in them??

If any men reading this has suffered sex abuse as a child, three organisations that might be able to help are:

M power https://helplines.org/helplines/mpower/

Survivors UK https://www.survivorsuk.org

National Association for people who have been abused in childhood http://napac.org.uk

Help organisations are saying that one good thing about the latest revelations is that it involves football, which a lot of men can relate to, so they are finding that men who have kept this to themselves for many years feel a little more comfortable discussing it many years later.

These organisations have people who have suffered abuse themselves. I'm sure that it must help to be an to speak to someone who can truly understand the effects of sexual abuse in childhood.

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The link does not work TD.
Just tried replacing the four stars with the missing letters and I can't get it to work either unfortunately.

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Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?

I can answer some of the questions.
Gays, are adults that keep to the SAME partner.
Peados, Grooms Children, until they strike either girls or boys. Then they ply there sick trade. Pass images round other sick *******s.
Then they start the cycle again. Grooming means many types. Money, booze, fags or even drugs. Then they strike.

It happened to me. What is happening to me. Went on for five years. There were lots of places where 'he struck' My parents went to the police. They didn't give a *****. They told me it was in my head. I even told them where to go. They said l was imagined it.

I applaud all those people that are not saying what happened.

Trouble is nowadays, they will go to court and get a small sentence.

But, when it happened to me. The police didn't care.

The reason l talk about it now is that, I want people to know that there are people out there who will listen
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Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?

Moved thread and changed title

Moved to Current Affairs as the scope of this thing is getting wider and may continue to be a big story, not just a sporting one.
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Moved thread and changed title

Moved to Current Affairs as the scope of this thing is getting wider and may continue to be a big story, not just a sporting one.
Sadly, it is becoming a larger problem than I ever imagined when starting this thread.

As many as 860 footballers have now reported being sexually abused, including David Eatock from Newcastle United.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-38157275
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Ex Chelsea player Gary Johnson now saying that he was paid £50,000 to keep quiet about being abused

Child sex abuse seems to be much larger than anybody ever imagined.

An ITV poll said that 86% of people had either been sexually abused as a child, or knew someone that had.

After Savile and sport, it makes you wonder which industry will be next
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Re: Football sex abuse

A new case concerning Aston Villa has come to light:

http://www.expressandstar.com/news/c...er-tony-brien/

The person who was abused is interviewed at the beginning of today's Victoria Derbyshire show:

http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b08cgs99
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