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RichardCoulter 25-11-2016 19:52

Football sex abuse
 
Looks like this could become another Savile affair with more and more footballers coming out each day as the story unfolds:

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-38107910

Saw an interview with Paul Stewart on 'This Morning'. He said that his addictions were as a result of trying to block out what was done to him.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/football/38090926

Barry Bennell is pictured here with Stewart and Gazza:

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/football/...xually-abused/

I wonder if Gascoignes addiction to drinking is because he was abused too?

There was a programme on Radio 4 earlier this week that said that boys/men who have been abused by other men fear being tainted by homosexuality:

http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b082vys4 it's from about 0:25

Wasn't Gazza always keen to point out that (sic) he was "not a pufta"??

One footballer, Steve Walters, said on this mornings Victoria Derbyshire programme that he wondered if it meant that he was gay and this had stopped him forming close relationships with men, so this indicates that this could be true.

It's the first topic to be discussed if anyone wants to watch it:

http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b083hbky

Arthurgray50@blu 25-11-2016 20:36

Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?
 
There is every chance that this could be a true. BUT, don't forget what l hve said. It takes a very long time to tell other people, wife or husband or family about this.

Many years ago when it happened to me. There was a favourite spot in Hammersmith, where this was happening. But police did nothing about it.

I think they guys who are coming out with this now. ONLY came about because of the Saville business.

I applaud there actions. Its not easy. And No, l don't think its anything to do with there own sexuality. In fact with e. It has scarred me for life. Even when l go the public loos nw. I wont stand next to anyone, when l use the loos

But, the sad thing is that what is happening now is just the tip of a very large iceberg. And it wont melt until the Law gets tough with what is happening.

RichardCoulter 26-11-2016 09:43

Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?
 
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Originally Posted by Arthurgray50@blu (Post 35871746)
There is every chance that this could be a true. BUT, don't forget what l hve said. It takes a very long time to tell other people, wife or husband or family about this.

Many years ago when it happened to me. There was a favourite spot in Hammersmith, where this was happening. But police did nothing about it.

I think they guys who are coming out with this now. ONLY came about because of the Saville business.

I applaud there actions. Its not easy. And No, l don't think its anything to do with there own sexuality. In fact with e. It has scarred me for life. Even when l go the public loos nw. I wont stand next to anyone, when l use the loos

But, the sad thing is that what is happening now is just the tip of a very large iceberg. And it wont melt until the Law gets tough with what is happening.

I agree Arthur, what an adult does to a child doesn't in any way determine what the child's sexuality will turn out to be.

The Savile inquiry and now this may unfortunately show that this behaviour is much more prevalent than anyone imagined.

I applaud their actions too, I think it's harder for a man to admit to what happened to them, particularly in the macho world of football.

RichardCoulter 27-11-2016 12:03

Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?
 
News now saying that over 20 footballers have now come forward to say that they were sexually abused.

denphone 27-11-2016 12:45

Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?
 
This looks like it could be the tip of the iceberg Richard as several sources say there could be several hundred that were sexually abused over several decades.

RichardCoulter 27-11-2016 13:41

Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?
 
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Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35872102)
This looks like it could be the tip of the iceberg Richard as several sources say there could be several hundred that were sexually abused over several decades.

Terrible isn't it, especially so soon after the Savile inquiry.

I found it upsetting to see all those footballers in tears and to learn that the abuse even extended to penetration after watching the Victoria Derbyshire show:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8c3w48mLMKI

RichardCoulter 27-11-2016 16:16

Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?
 
Just been discussing this with friends.

Schoolboy soccer will attract paedophiles like a moth to a light.

If anyone has a young lad who plays for one of these teams, it might be an idea to sit him down and ask if anything untoward has happened when training, playing football etc.

RichardCoulter 28-11-2016 23:33

Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?
 
Sounds to me like Barry Bennell has either attempted suicide or been assaulted:

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-38134941

RichardCoulter 29-11-2016 06:17

Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?
 
Disgusting comments from Eric Bristow about the sexually abused footballers; there's also a rugby player who it's happened to too:

http://www.mirror.co.uk/sport/footba...-arent-9354804

denphone 29-11-2016 07:24

Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?
 
Yes l read those repulsive comments this morning and they certainly are despicable as he has no idea how it is for somebody who is being sexually abused or has been sexually abused before.

RichardCoulter 29-11-2016 13:50

Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?
 
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Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35872397)
Yes l read those repulsive comments this morning and they certainly are despicable as he has no idea how it is for somebody who is being sexually abused or has been sexually abused before.

Exactly, he also seems to think that paedophila and homosexuality are the same thing!

Thought those views died out long ago.

RichardCoulter 29-11-2016 16:23

Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?
 
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Originally Posted by RichardCoulter (Post 35872437)
Exactly, he also seems to think that paedophila and homosexuality are the same thing!

Thought those views died out long ago.

Pleased to see that Sky have now sacked Bristo.

denphone 29-11-2016 16:27

Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?
 
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Originally Posted by RichardCoulter (Post 35872473)
Pleased to see that Sky have now sacked Bristo.

They simply had no option Richard.

nomadking 29-11-2016 16:30

Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?
 
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Originally Posted by RichardCoulter (Post 35872437)
Exactly, he also seems to think that paedophila and homosexuality are the same thing!

Thought those views died out long ago.

Where does he say that? He wasn't talking about all gay men and he wasn't talking about all paedophiles. He was ONLY talking about the men that abused young boys. That would make them gay and a paedophile.

TheDaddy 29-11-2016 16:58

Re: Football sex abuse- was Gazza abused?
 
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Originally Posted by nomadking (Post 35872476)
Where does he say that? He wasn't talking about all gay men and he wasn't talking about all paedophiles. He was ONLY talking about the men that abused young boys. That would make them gay and a paedophile.

Which ones worse? The only sexual predilection Eric should've mentioned is the one for children imo


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