ok...ill post the exact configuration you need for each page i understand what your meanign abotu the name of the server so dnt worry
once oyu have set it up as per my instructions ill need you to doa test adn report the error numbers those will be crucial to determine the fault as it windows inbuilt diagnostic errors which can help pinpoint the fault
edit: you will have to bear with me i will post it asa idiot guide so assumign you dnt knwo anyuthing but i am pretty sure you do but since i dnt knwo yoru exact it knowledge it easier to assume you know nothing and post it asas step by step guide so please dnt take offence
edit2:
ok first open outlook express
click on tools then select accounts
click on add and select mail
first page display name --> this is the name you want to be display when you send email for example joe bloggs then click next
on the next page this is for your email address --> for example if your email address is
joebloggs@virginmedia.com then you put that, replace with your own email address then press next
on the next page this is the email settings --> so select pop3 (im assuming you are wanitng pop3 from your original post if nto select imap but ill need to give additonal details later) in incoming servr type pop3.virginmedia.com and outgoign server type smtp.virginmedia.com then press next
on the nxt page is acocutn details --> put in your email address again and the password you have set for the account which is the same that you will use to log into
www.virignmedia.com it is up to you if you tick remember password but it si better to do so, dnt tick use secure password, then press next
then press finish
on the accounts page that you come back to select your one you have just set up and select properties
on the mail accoutn page rename the accoutn to something you want liek you said before 1stvirginmedia.com
then clcik on servers
tick on my server requires authencation
then clcik on settings
tehn select log on using
type in yoru email address and password again and press ok
then clcik on advanced
tick this server requires secure conenction ssl on both incomign adn outgoing
make sure outgoign smtp is 465 and incoming pop3 is 995 if you have sued imap ill post the port ;ater dnt have it to hand
then clcik apply and press ok
now try send adn reciving a email