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Old 16-02-2007, 09:33   #1
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I dont know what to do

I don't know what to do here.

I have a partner and a 6 month old son. I am not feeling happy at all in the relationship. My partner never helps me in the house with housework. I have to ask I normally get huffs and puffs when I do so.

Ever since we have got this house she has been lazy. She hardly ever has a bath or shower now. Sits on the PC most of the night. Plus she never wants to ring up anywhere. Like we needed a copy of her last 3 wage slips and I had to ring up her payroll as she pulled a face about it.

I was training at work the other day and forgot my training book. I asked if she would go back to the house and pick it up for me as we had both gone up the road. She said ok but when she returned she was in a foul mood with me. And in front of all my work colleagues to. She will also sometimes wakes up and start snapping at me and when I ask whats wrong she simply says I feel like being in a mood.

Its really starting to get me down now. We have had words in the past and she promises to change but never does. Its always a change of like 2 weeks then its back to her normal self.

I have feelings for my ex still who was my first true love and I feel I can never love my partner in the same way I love my ex.

But since I got this house would I get help with rent and Council Tax being a single occupant. I am hoping to keep my son here and let her have access as I feel she cant look after herself yet let alone a child to. So if that was the case I would be a Single parent.

Any advice would be great.

Thanks
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