In demand with the females

Escapee · 14-02-2006, 16:28

Just another light hearted story, following on from the one a number of months ago regarding a young girl in work giving me the come on. Before anyone thinks it "No, I do not think I am gods gift to women"

In my local pub we have two youg barmaids, one 18yrs old the other 19yrs old. I always have a chat to them on friendly terms, the boyfriend of the 18 yr old is sometimes in, and the 19 yr old is engaged. When anyone tries to chat up the 19 yr old she always shows her ring and says "I'm engaged".
A few weeks ago I thought she was getting a little flirty with me, I brushed it off thinking what would a 19yr old want with an old 39 yr old like me. This carried on for a few weeks and I eventually played my ace card, as I took my girlfriend in a two weeks ago on a Saturday. The 19 yr old scowled at me a couple of times and when my girlfriend went to the bar to get the drinks, she said "hang on a second" she came out from behind the bar brushed past me, collected a few glasses and brushed past me on the way back. My girlfriend commented on it and suggested she fancied me.

I thought perhaps my mate had dared her to give me the come on, he has been after both of them as he's the charming type with a flashy car. I went in the pub on Thursday night and the 19 yr old was serving, it was not my usual night and was very quiet. She immediately said "Wheres your Girly friend tonight" in a sarcastic voice, she sat close to me at the other side of the bar and we chatted for an hour before I went home, she mentioned that my mate kept following her when she collected glasses and she wasn't interested.

I went back in on my usual Saturday, and I had pulled my mates leg telling him that I had tried it on but she was only interested in him. He said "Sorry about that mate, some of have it and some dont" He came in about 30 mins after I got there and straight away tried the charm, she went up the other end of the bar to get away from him. Every time he went away from the bar to play the machine she would come back over to me. He commented that she was talking to me more than him, she asked me to look in her eye to see if she had something in there and then asked me to fix a cancer care flower to her top. She was brushing against me all the time and after touching me a few times, twice touched me up in my frontal region!

She was then saying that she keeps asking her boyfriend for a bit of the other but he keeps refusing. She even mentioned that her boyfriend is away working this week, and she expressed an interest when a few of us were talking about a minibus for a boys night out.
I am a little confused, I am not sure if she's flirting or trying to make me blush. She always refuses any advances from the guys, but seems to be giving me very strong signals.

I am very confused, I will never understand women. I guess I should suggest a meet one night and perhaps that will frighten her off.

Pia · 14-02-2006, 16:45

Ignore her, sounds like a bit of a slapper to me

Nice to know someone's getting some attention in that aspect though, it being Valentine's Day and all!

pop80_uk · 14-02-2006, 17:06

Be careful.....instead of being in a bar....

You may end up behind them

Good story though, let us know the progress. Try to get a free drink and one for her

ikthius · 14-02-2006, 17:15

you lucky sod.

ik

Escapee · 14-02-2006, 17:39

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Originally Posted by ikthius

you lucky sod.

ik

Yes, but my heart could give out at my age!

zeus9876 · 14-02-2006, 17:41

If you have a girlfriend and she has a boyfriend then why would you want to ? Just tell her your not interested and to leave you alone or better yet just tell your girlfriend that she's been feeling you up and let your girlfriend sort it out.

14-02-2006, 17:46

I think this is a blatent show off thread you git

Look what I got ner ner ner ner ner lol

etccarmageddon · 14-02-2006, 18:06

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Originally Posted by zeus9876

If you have a girlfriend and she has a boyfriend then why would you want to ? Just tell her your not interested and to leave you alone or better yet just tell your girlfriend that she's been feeling you up and let your girlfriend sort it out.

yeah but you'll know in Escapee's world what'll happen... his g/f will sort it out all right! and he'll come home from work and find his g/f and that barmaid waiting for him dressed in nowt but suspenders.

The world is a sick place.

Halcyon · 14-02-2006, 18:17

If all is good between you and your girlfriend, you dont want to have this bar girl causing you problems. I suggest you break into her house, kidnap her, throw her in a lake and then burn down her house.

[PS: Joke. Dont actually do this. I claim no respsonsability if you do]

On a serious note, I think she is one of those attention seeking girl's who wouldnt care if she broke up a couple as it would make her feel better as she has a power over you. Seeing you bring in your girlfriend was competition for her and she didnt like that.
I'd stay away from her or if you still talk to her, make sure its stricty on a friends term and ignore all her flirting.
If it gets too bad, just tell her that you are not interested in her little games.
Don't let her ruin your good relationship with your girlfriend.

Good luck.

Kliro · 14-02-2006, 19:50

I'd be careful not to initiate anything, you could end up looking like a sorry fool.

punky · 14-02-2006, 19:50

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Originally Posted by zinglebarb

I think this is a blatent show off thread you git

Look what I got ner ner ner ner ner lol

Yeah, but fair play... If I was 39 and had a 19 year old trying it on with me, i'd make sure everyone knew about it

Slyder · 14-02-2006, 20:02

God I remember when I was 19 putting it out to all the women.. how the tables turn

You and your girly... is some dirty little minx worth the aggro of loosing the misses. I agree, have your wicked way you dirty stud.

(serious note now - if its a serious relationship you have with the other half, dont chance anything mate, believe me)

Pia · 14-02-2006, 20:08

She's probably the type who thinks she can get anyone she wants, seeing how she is unfazed by your flashy friend wanting her.

I'd play her at her own game if i were you, act uninterested, she'll soon get a shock when she realises you don't fancy her, i'd love to see her face

Escapee · 14-02-2006, 20:42

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Originally Posted by Pia

She's probably the type who thinks she can get anyone she wants, seeing how she is unfazed by your flashy friend wanting her.

I'd play her at her own game if i were you, act uninterested, she'll soon get a shock when she realises you don't fancy her, i'd love to see her face

Thats the way I have been playing her for a few weeks, not because I intended to play hard to get but just because I couldn't believe it was going on. I honestly thought I was making something out of nothing, and she was just being very friendly. Then I thought she was trying to see if she could make me blush, but when she touched me up twice on Saturday, she did it in the corner by the bar hatch where no one could see her do it. I think one of the regulars noticed though, as he raised his eyebrows when I looked around. That was after she had grabbed hold of my hand to feel her thigh, I didn't feel her thigh as I pulled my hand away, I also declined the offer to feel her rear end as she offered. She must of also made a comment to the landlady, because she said xyz asked who was that girl with you. It was like the landlady was fishing to see if anything was going on.

My girlfriend is again no help at all, I didn't tell her about it but she didn't take long to spot it when we were in the pub. She said the same as last time in her Filipino accent "you will have to taste that one"

I must admit it is flattering, although I will be very annoyed if its just a wind up.

Pia · 14-02-2006, 21:15

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Originally Posted by Escapee

she touched me up twice on Saturday, she did it in the corner by the bar hatch where no one could see her do it. I think one of the regulars noticed though, as he raised his eyebrows when I looked around. That was after she had grabbed hold of my hand to feel her thigh, I didn't feel her thigh as I pulled my hand away, I also declined the offer to feel her rear end as she offered

LOL what a tart!!