Cant help but look.

LondonRoad · 28-03-2009, 22:38

I'm sure we've all been in this position before, whether it be the low cut dress, or whatever.

The question is - Is there a way to stop yourself from staring at something you shouldn't be staring at?

One of our neighbours got a boob job a few weeks ago (supposed to be secret but how do you keep such things secret?). I've met her 3 times this week and find it very difficult to stop my eyes from wandering towards the, hmmm, enhancement.

The strange things are I don't find this lady particulary attractive, I'm not attracted to silicone, her "improved" breasts are still smaller than my good lady's, I would never have glanced at her chest before...... so why the lack of eye control?????

Julian · 28-03-2009, 22:42

Forbidden fruit.

icestar2 · 28-03-2009, 22:42

Maybe its just plain curiosity at something new. After all the curious mind is responsible for most of human advances isnt it ? or am I way off here ?

moaningmags · 28-03-2009, 22:43

Now for any woman this is easy, we ask if it hurt, how she feels about them, how many stitches, how bad is the scarring, how the surgeon did it, cut under the boob or in through the underarm, and can we have a wee feel to see how real they are.
That coming from one woman to another is normal, coming from a man would get him a slap.
Because you can't come right out and ask these questions, you're eyes are drawn there everytime.

superbiatch · 28-03-2009, 22:44

Forgive me if i'm wrong, but i'm of the opinion guys don't even know they're doing it half the time and have no control over their eyes

Its probably also to do with the fact men are more visually stimulated than us girlies.

I'm not bitter at all, so if my guy did it in front of me I'd wear a low cut top/tight fitting jeans etc and get my own attention to wind him up

icestar2 · 28-03-2009, 22:44

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Originally Posted by moaningmags

Now for any woman this is easy, we ask if it hurt, how she feels about them, how many stitches, how bad is the scarring, how the surgeon did it, cut under the boob or in through the underarm, and can we have a wee feel to see how real they are.
That coming from one woman to another is normal, coming from a man would get him a slap.
Because you can't come right out and ask these questions, you're eyes are drawn there everytime.

Well thats far better than my attempt at an explanation lol.

Ramrod · 28-03-2009, 22:46

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Originally Posted by superbiatch

Forgive me if i'm wrong, but i'm of the opinion guys don't even know they're doing it half the time and have no control over their eyes

Agreed, it can be done but it's difficult

Gary L · 28-03-2009, 22:46

I wouldn't feel guilty about it

LondonRoad · 28-03-2009, 22:47

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Originally Posted by Julian

Forbidden fruit.

It's not that, I prefer... well the fruit in my fruit bowl tends to be fresh. There's no plastic grapes to make the bowl look more aesthetic to the eye

Gary L · 28-03-2009, 22:47

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Originally Posted by superbiatch

I'd wear a low cut top/tight fitting jeans etc and get my own attention to wind him up

I'm wound up just thinking about it

LondonRoad · 28-03-2009, 22:51

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Originally Posted by moaningmags

Now for any woman this is easy, we ask if it hurt, how she feels about them, how many stitches, how bad is the scarring, how the surgeon did it, cut under the boob or in through the underarm, and can we have a wee feel to see how real they are.
That coming from one woman to another is normal, coming from a man would get him a slap.
Because you can't come right out and ask these questions, you're eyes are drawn there everytime.

My wife isn't supposed to know which we both find hilarious.... Previously flat chested suburbia housewife disappears off scene for a while, returns with new dress sense and obvious....., well sometimes you feel like you're looking down both barrels...

28-03-2009, 23:05

After spending money on them and the pain she suffered, would it not be rude to not notice?

Gary L · 28-03-2009, 23:09

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Originally Posted by xocemp

After spending money on them and the pain she suffered, would it not be rude to not notice?

Don't tell his wife he paid for them.

DRZ400 · 28-03-2009, 23:11

Looking at a womans breasts is on par with looking at the Sun.

You know you shouldn't do it, but occasionally have a sneaky peek.

danielf · 29-03-2009, 00:09

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Originally Posted by superbiatch

Forgive me if i'm wrong, but i'm of the opinion guys don't even know they're doing it half the time and have no control over their eyes

I've given up on trying to control my eyes