A simple question about love, poetry and leaving home

kronas · 13-08-2005, 00:47

attention, girl i fancy is leaving permanantly ( not not because of me) this will proberbly be the last time i see her, all being well might go on a night out, so do i hand over all that i have written about her in poetry at the end of the night tell her to read it when shes left or leave it as dead as a duck thats shot up the arse ?

Raistlin · 13-08-2005, 00:49

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Originally Posted by kronas

attention, girl i fancy is leaving permanantly ( not not because of me) this will proberbly be the last time i see her, all being well might go on a nigh tout, so do i hand over all that i have written about her in poetry or leave it as dead as a duck thats shot up the arse ?

Leave it mate.

Enjoy your night out and treasure the memories that you have of the good times you've spent together.

Keep your writings to yourself, but make sure she understands (in other words just tell her) that she is very special to you and that you would like to stay in touch.

marky · 13-08-2005, 00:51

i'll go with raist

kronas · 13-08-2005, 00:52

she knows how i feel, ive been there on a couple of occasions, i just wanted her to remember me by something, its diffarent when its someone your emotionally attached to, even if they are not.

Raistlin · 13-08-2005, 00:57

I can't help but think that you've already made your own mind up mate - sorry if that's not the case.

I really think that it's best to leave this one as it is, for yourself as well as for her.

If she knows how you feel already then there's no harm in repeating it when you say goodbye to her - I wouldn't give over the poetry though.

I would just let it be as it is, cherish what you have and what you've had - and let her remember the caring, thoughtful, you that feels deeply for her. Don't burden the situation with anything more than she might feel comfortable with.

kronas · 13-08-2005, 00:59

ok so a leaving present then ?

apologies for the spelling, can a mod correct it in the poll ?

Raistlin · 13-08-2005, 01:01

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ok so a leaving present then ?

That would be a nice idea.

Something simple, but that she can keep.

Not too extravagant, but something that will always be a reminder of the depth of feeling that you have for her.

Something not too personal (so no knickers

), yet just personal enough so that it shows you've thought about it.

Ramrod · 13-08-2005, 01:03

I'm in the 'wtf?' camp here m8........poetry?--too needy and wierd! Don't do it!

marky · 13-08-2005, 01:03

maybe a necklace with her name on it ????

danielf · 13-08-2005, 01:08

Engraved ipods are off limits btw...

kronas · 13-08-2005, 01:09

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maybe a necklace with her name on it ????

jewellery is my port of call and im good at choosing things like this, i go for the expensive stuff though, i dont look at the price tag just the product itself honest.

i will NOT be doing poetry guys i think ill let that rest.

Raistlin · 13-08-2005, 01:09

By the way, in case anybody thinks otherwise, I'm not totally insensitive to how you're feeling kronas.

When I was about 15/16 my first love moved away and I never got to tell her how I really felt about her. I still miss her, and regret not having the courage to tell her how I felt.

kronas · 13-08-2005, 01:11

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Originally Posted by danielf

Engraved ipods are off limits btw...

IPOD done that!

danielf · 13-08-2005, 01:15

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Originally Posted by kronas

IPOD done that!

And I told you not to... Bad or should I say Sad Kronas.

dilligaf1701 · 13-08-2005, 01:16

I have voted.