Love and feelings

[Halcyon]

Hi everyone,

Well it seems I'm going to start my first ever topic that is quite erm, how do I put it, strange to write, yet also interesting to see what people will think.
Anyway one question is, do you have a song or anything that just brings back loads of memories.
I'm listening to a piece of music right now and all I can think of is this girl that I really like and cant get out of my head as this piece of music just brings back so many memories and I just cant stop thinking about her.

Its strange, but these kind of feelings can make you go insane.
The feeling of love and the thoughts of your life and being with someone that you cant stop thinking of.

So I guess there really is a million questions in my topic tonight, but mostly, what do you think of this whole ball game of love and feeelings ?

Do you trust your feelings ? Do you just know when you have found the one person that makes your dreams come true.

It is just so confusing.
Right I guess I'l leave you all to discuss this now, as my mind is messed up enough right now.

[Russ]

Song - Escaping by Enrique Iglasias, My Sacrifice by Creed.

I try not to act on feelings anymore. That's too unpredictable, I just try to base my judgements on what would glorify my God and it's not let me down yet.

Might not be what you were hoping for though.....

[kronas]

the only thing that will trigger an emotion for me is seeing someone who i fancy, saying that its true for anyone, but one particular person brings out something of a special response, some kind of link

'Samba pa ti' by Santana is guaranteed to make the hairs on the back of my neck feel 'pr1ckly'

[Halcyon]

The mind is so powerful though.
Its like whenever you hear a certain song everything just flashes by you.

I guess what I was wondering was if people are in the same boat. I cant just go and tell someone I like them as that never works for me. Well its always messed up in the past. And now I am just thinking how beautiful she is.
I may seem a bit strange in my replies as I dont normally talk about this kind of stuff. Its just that I have a lot going round in my mind right now.

I guess I'm catching up with her in 2 weeks time at a party so that should be fun. Its just hard to say things sometime.

[Bex]

Originally Posted by Halcyon

The mind is so powerful though.
Its like whenever you hear a certain song everything just flashes by you.

I guess what I was wondering was if people are in the same boat. I cant just go and tell someone I like them as that never works for me. Well its always messed up in the past. And now I am just thinking how beautiful she is.
I may seem a bit strange in my replies as I dont normally talk about this kind of stuff. Its just that I have a lot going round in my mind right now.

I guess I'm catching up with her in 2 weeks time at a party so that should be fun. Its just hard to say things sometime.

maybe dont go into a whole discussion on what you feel about her, but ask her out so it's just the two of you.

for me even certain smells make me think of my boyfriend... like someone walking past wearing the same aftershave..... or just normal nature smells when im out. several songs make me think of him as well.

you asked earlier how you know they are the one. i think you just know. you cant imagine a future without them in your life, or going even a day with out talking to them. it;s late and im getting soppy now

Originally Posted by Halcyon

The mind is so powerful though.
Its like whenever you hear a certain song everything just flashes by you.

I guess what I was wondering was if people are in the same boat. I cant just go and tell someone I like them as that never works for me. Well its always messed up in the past. And now I am just thinking how beautiful she is.
I may seem a bit strange in my replies as I dont normally talk about this kind of stuff. Its just that I have a lot going round in my mind right now.

I guess I'm catching up with her in 2 weeks time at a party so that should be fun. Its just hard to say things sometime.

nothing wrong with telling some-one you like them, i reckon

- it just doesn't have to be the first thing you say, though, "hi, nice to see you", comes first, maybe, or something like

[Bex]

Originally Posted by homealone

nothing wrong with telling some-one you like them, i reckon

- it just doesn't have to be the first thing you say, though, "hi, nice to see you", comes first, maybe, or something like

but dont go into a detailed expression either, she will run a mile

[kronas]

Originally Posted by homealone

nothing wrong with telling some-one you like them, i reckon

easier said than done, simaller situation to me, see the person, be around the person, yet feel a surge of energy inside you, almost like an enticing array of excitment exploding, wanting to say......i like you

[Bifta]

Song to the Siren by This Mortal Coil brings back a lot of memories, as does Martha's Harbour - All About Eve.

I was playing the Foo Fighters , The Colour and the Shape album Friday night last week. I dont know which song was playin at the time, but the lyrics brought back all the memories of Maureen. While 99% of those memories are happy one, it just crushes me that I'll never get to sit with her, hold her hand, talkto her. All the things we take for granted because they person we want to be with is with us. All the plan's, dreams, and hope of going to Canada, meeting her folk's and asking permission to marry Maureen.......... gone.

Take a peice of advice from someone who's loved and lost.............

Talk to the girl, put aside all the bull$h1t, all the ego and the fancy patter, and talk to the girl. If she's 'THE ONE' you will both know. Maureen tod me she knew I was the one the first time she met me, it took me 4 more days to realise Maureen was 'special'.

Anyway, enough of my cr@p. I'm goin out for a smoke and a cry, cause I'm drippin snot on my keyboard.

[Bex]

earl...............

Originally Posted by Bex

earl...............

Thanks Bex.

Looks like I killed you're thread Halcyon, sorry mate.

[Bex]

Originally Posted by Earl of Bronze

Thanks Bex.

Looks like I killed you're thread Halcyon, sorry mate.

np. i think your advice is sound though. life is fragile and theres no point hanging around and waiting for things to be perfect, it could never happen and then you would have no memories at all

Originally Posted by Earl of Bronze

Thanks Bex.

Looks like I killed you're thread Halcyon, sorry mate.

no - we will not allow you expressing your feelings about her, to be tumbleweed - the dignity you have shown defines you - I am just concerned you feel you need to take up your planned employment, given that your body is already damaged?